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Q. I will be going on my honeymoon from July 10-20 and I need some advice as to what to pack. We are going to Hawaii and we will be spending the first three nights in Honolulu, and then the rest of the trip on the island of Kauai (more remote and quiet). We are a young active couple in our mid twenties and our activities will be very active, but there will also be down time and nice romantic dinners, the beach, etc. I am petite (5’1, 120lbs) and not really into too-sporty styles. Any advice on stylish outfits and clothes for the most memorable trip of my life?

A. Obviously, you want to look good for all those photos you’ll be taking. For a honeymoon I change my usual packing advice about keeping to three neutral colors and simplicity. For evenings, wear lightweight sundresses and for days of activities, pack shorts, tanks and vintage style tees. Skip jeans and pack stylish khakis or white pants and skirts. Pack double the amount of tops to bottoms. You can wear pants and skirts twice with fresh colorful tops before tossing in the laundry bag. Pack three swimsuits so you can continually switch them. Pack a clutch for dinners, a tote for the beach or pool and use that same bag for shopping or day excursions. Pack strappy heels, sneakers, flip flops or thong sandals and a low or flat sandals or espadrille. And don’t forget some pretty lingerie. Extra tips —pack an extra pair of sunglasses in case you lose a pair and you can always wash intimates with a little shampoo and hang in the shower overnight to dry.

Striped Sylvan dressStrapless Smocked Jersey Dress from Nicole MillerGrace Eyelet Dress

Pack a few day to evening dresses that can be worn with flip flops or wedge sandals, left to right: Striped Sylvan dress, $148 at; Strapless Smocked Jersey Dress from Nicole Miller, $255 at; Grace Eyelet Dress, $44.50 at

Love Squared Drawstring Tube TopGingham ruffle halterStretch twill short

Pack a variety of tops that can be paired with shorts worn multiple times, left to right: Love Squared Drawstring Tube Top, $26 at; Gingham ruffle halter, $78 at; Stretch twill short, $60 at

 Three Tier Print CamiTory Burch Frederick Pants

left to right: Three Tier Print Cami, $78 at; Tory Burch Frederick Pants, $235 at

Susina® Pointelle CardiganZinc Patchwork SkirtRialto boatneck sweaterNick & Mo Tab Front Skirt

left to right: Susina Pointelle Cardigan, $36 at; Zinc Patchwork Skirt, $42 at; Rialto boatneck sweater, $68 at; Nick & Mo Tab Front Skirt, $42 at

Q. I have several “big” events this year. The first is a late-July family wedding in the Midwest that won’t be terribly formal. The second is my (gulp) 20-year high school reunion on September 1 in Phoenix, which also won’t be terribly formal, and the last is the wedding of my closest friend in Santa Fe on September 8, also not formal, but probably dressier than the other events. I would like to have one dress to wear to each since there will be entirely different people at each event. The problem is that the first event is smack in the middle of summer, and the last event is just in the very beginning of fall. I was leaning towards a halter-style neckline dress with an empire waist (I am short and curvy and find this style highlights the shoulders and bust while hiding my non-flat tummy) and have fallen in love with a chiffon one that is black with white polka dots. Will this be too summery to wear to the September 8 wedding? If so, do you have any other suggestions of dresses in the style described that would be in a color and fabric that is more seasonless?

A. Your black and white polka dot choice will certainly work for all three events. I like that you thought beyond a simple black dress and chose a pattern. With none of the same people at any of the events, you have multiple options. A little black dress can be switched in a myriad of ways with different accessories and heels while a patterned or colored dress makes a fresh and more stylish impression. I found several flattering options for a petite, curvy figure:

Sexy Red Dresses
from edressme new yorkAdrianna Papell Floral Silk Halter DressAdrianna Papell Floral Silk Halter DressMaggy London Print Charmeuse Halter DressMaggy London Silk Chiffon Halter Dress

left to right: Sexy Red Dresses from edressme new york, $42 at; Adrianna Papell Floral Silk Halter Dress, $178 at; Adrianna Papell Floral Silk Halter Dress, $179 at; Maggy London Print Charmeuse Halter Dress, $178 at; Maggy London Silk Chiffon Halter Dress, $148 at

Dress CopyQ. I recently purchased a Navy Satin Pinstripe dress by Betsy Johnson for a formal evening wedding this July 2007 in downtown New York (which I hope is OK to begin with!) However, I want to add a little spice to the dress and not just buy a black/navy satin shoe since the dress itself is different as far as style. Any advice on how to spice things up a bit!

- Frazzled and Dazzled

A. Metallic or color is the best way to add sass to a navy dress. Here are several options for your feet and to carry.

Franchi Handbags
Pagoda Leather ClutchWhiting & Davis Handbags
Shirred Mesh Long ClutchNina 'Oriana' SandalStuart Weitzman

opt for silver or white accessories, left to right: Franchi Handbags Pagoda Leather Clutch, $158.95 at; Whiting & Davis Handbags Shirred Mesh Long Clutch, $183.95 at; Nina ‘Oriana’ Sandal, $68.95 at; Stuart Weitzman Hotdish, $285 at

MAXSTUDIO 'Savannah' SandalCharles David
CarouseHand-painted laurel garland ring
Patent Bean Clutch

or add red, black and gold, left to right: Maxstudio ‘Savannah’ Sandal, $128.95 at; Charles David Carouse, $170 at; Hand-painted laurel garland ring, $45 at; Jalda Patent Bean Clutch, $265 at

Q. I am a size 14-16 and I am 5’8” and work in a bank. We have strict rules on no back or tummies to be revealed when bending over and raising your arms. Where can I find reasonably priced tops and pants that give enough rise and length to be professional? I also wear jeans on casual days and my jeans sit just below my waist. I need a pair that doesn’t cling to my thighs so I have wiggle room.
-Clothes Don’t Fit

A. I scoured our online sources for professional choices that will give you coverage in the front and back. For waist coverage, wide bands around the waistline can be flattering. Plus the new belted and tunic styles are stylish and cut longer and belted styles will help create an illusion of a smaller waist. Or try one of this season’s cropped jackets over a longer tunic or tank. For pants, look for styles that have a slightly wider leg. If you opt forjeans, trouser styles are flattering with a wider leg cut, they look more professional - plus you can dress them up for a night out.

Belted tunic with button detailVivid print cap-sleeve blouseBelted railroad-stripe shirtEyelet cotton pique jacket
Semantiks Faux Wrap Sweater Solid Chelsea wide-leg pant Svoboda 'Kate' Stretch Denim Trouser Jeans Jones New York Collection Flat Front Crepe Pants

left to right: Belted tunic with button detail, $24.99 at; Vivid print cap-sleeve blouse, $44.50 at; Belted railroad-stripe shirt, $39.50 at; Eyelet cotton pique jacket, $79.50 at; Semantiks Faux Wrap Sweater, $58 at; Solid Chelsea wide-leg pant, $49.50 at; Svoboda ‘Kate’ Stretch Denim Trouser Jeans at; Jones New York Collection Flat Front Crepe Pants, $99 at

Q. Do you know where I can find a cute summer dress with the on seam pockets in plus size? I think that it is the sweetest fashion look out there this summer and I can’t seem to find one to fit my larger frame (my bust in particular). Any advice you have would be great!
-Seemingly Cute

A. All these dresses have the pockets you’re seeking that will fit your curvy figure, just remember, they’re a style to use once in a while. Don’t rely on the pockets since consistent use can change the look or fall of the dress.

White denim halter dressLinen-blend dressKate by Kathryn Conover Jumper & TeeKate by Kathryn Conover Contrast Trim Matte Jersey Dress

left to right: White denim halter dress, $44.99 at; Linen-blend dress, $148 at; Kate by Kathryn Conover Jumper & Tee, $118 at; Kate by Kathryn Conover Contrast Trim Matte Jersey Dress, $140 at

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